1. fixed the bug in the Spread function.  2. add compare and OnehotAndIndex function 3. optimize the code

fix a bug in the softmax function. It executes backward comptuation incorrectly (in the condition of cpu computation and NOLOSS).
I found this bug by chance, then I spent one night confirming that something must be wrong and I spent one night finding the location of bug.
Finally, I fixed this bug in five minutes.

1. add gather function 2. add cross entropy forward computation and backward computation 3. code optimization 4. merge with xiaotong-working branch